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Just need to put my opinion out there

I don't care what your beliefs are on the LGBT community, I think that the It Gets Better Project is a great idea for the youth today. I stumbled across this article and it surprised me. I agree with the general statement, it's an over exaggeration of the situation, I'm sure if you look at the stats-every archetype of person in high school probably has the same rate of suicide- but that doesn't mean the message isn't important. I think it needs to be spread farther then just the LGBT community. I think everyone at that age needs to know that it gets better. That High School in general is rough for a lot of people, and even for the people who you might not think are having a hard time. It's an awkward time and teenagers are not nice people.

So to ALL teens- It does get better, life evens out and there is so much fun and joy coming your way if you just wait it out.

Love,

an ex-high school chubby/ math nerd/ choir girl/ drama club/ debate club/ jock/ tom boy/ class clown/ honor student female.

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